In such a digital world, it is easy (and typical) for us to get caught up in the new gadgets, the new toys. They are marketed as “conveniences” to us, devices that make our lives better, easier. Now, we have a computer in our hand to tell us when we get an email, when someone takes a picture of us, how far it is to the grocery store, everything.
We have become reliant on technology
We text, we email, we tweet, we post status updates, we tag pictures, we post blog updates, we instant message, we send photos, we take videos of our cats. We have phones, tablets, GPS units, heck, they even have internet connected watches now. Seriously, how connected do we need to be?
I know I am guilty of it. Here is just a picture of how my evening shaped up tonight:
Juliet got home from work right after a Tweet Up (#TNI) was finishing up
We head out to the bar for dinner/drinks
After were there, Juliet answers texts from her coworkers
We compare pictures from friends on Facebook/Twitter
I text one of our friends to see how they’re doing
Juliet calls her mom on the phone
I took a picture of our dog and sent it to a friend
Now I am writing a blog before bed
Seriously, can we not just disconnect for a day? I know I am not alone in this.
So here is my challenge to you. Take a day. 24 hours. Turn off. No computer, no phone, no internet, no twitter, no Facebook. Sure, carry your phone just in the case of an emergency, but turn off all your data services. Do not tempt yourself.
So, before you say it, I will.
I will put my money where my mouth is.
This weekend is June 25th-26th and I will go 48 hours without being connected to the internet or on a computer.
With a dedication to a blog post per day for the month of June, that means I need to get Friday, Saturday and Sunday’s blog posts done tomorrow, as well as my Foto Friday post. Looks like I have my work cut out for me.
But I will take my own challenge. I am going to spend my time with Juliet, with the dogs, being a family, without external influences, without external connectivity.
I will follow up this blog on Monday/Tuesday with photos and a write-up of my digital sabbatical. A weekend of freedom. 48 hours untethered.
Day 23. Way 23. Disconnect from your digital addiction. Enjoy the freedom of old times. Get back to basics. A smile, a handshake. No internet.
Can you go without the internet?
Can you forego a few tweets?
Join me in a digital sabbatical this weekend, June 25-26. Share your commitment below!
About 4 months ago I posted a blog about my participation in a personal experiment known as Project 333. I asked my readers, and myself, could you live for 3 months with only 33 articles of clothing?
I was all for it. I had quit my corporate job in July and put away all of my slacks, suits and dress shirts in favor of shorts, jeans and t-shirts for my new job. I had been in that new job for 4 months when I made the decision to pack away the majority of my clothes and settle on just 33 items.
“That’s EASY” you might say, especially considering I could pretty much wear to work what I would wear on the weekends, so not much variety or creativity was really necessary when it came to picking out 33 items, or so it would seem.
December 31st, New Years Eve is when I sat down, went through all of my clothes and filled up around 8 large storage boxes full of clothes, shoes, jackets, hats, etc. It was liberating, but at the same time a little scary. Not only was I planning out the clothes I would wear for the next 3 months, I was also planning out the clothes I would wear in California for work, where at the worst it was 50* and raining. I also had to plan for a trip to upstate New York, as Juliet and I were leaving on January 4th for Rochester and 20* (and below) and snowing.
All in all, the decisions were not hard, but I wanted to be dedicated to this and prove to myself that I could do it. Little did I know how my life would change and how much this would help me through it.
Changes in Latitudes
Not 7 days after packing up all of my excess clothes, Juliet accepted a job that would move us back to upstate New York, a little faster than we anticipated. When she accepted the job, we were thinking March 1st or even March 15th. Perfect, 2 more months in Southern California, 2 more months of shorts, t-shirts and sandals.
Then the news came. Juliet starts her new job February 7th, which means we are on a one way plane to New York on February 3rd.
When it came to moving, we were moving into temporary housing, so we didn’t have to move everything, just our essentials to live in a hotel for 4-6 months. The last few weeks leading up to moving were quite stressful, packing, planning, booking airfare, renting cars, figuring out just what in the world I was going to do.
“But what does this have to do with Project 333??”
Thanks to Project 333, while my wife packed all of her clothes for work, casual, gym, etc, and filled 5-6 boxes, my clothes fit in 1. This was somewhat due to the fact that Juliet was packing for work, casual and everything else, where I did not have to pack for work, however, the only thing I altered in my Project 333 clothing list when we moved was the addition of 2 pairs of shoes and a few sweatshirts.
After reading more from Courtney Carver of Be More With Less, the originator of this challenge, as well as reading more from others who were participating, this “challenge” is not so much of a challenge to force yourself into “living like a poor person” as some people like to put it, rather, it is a challenge to the mindset of what is really needed in life.
The major takeaway I have from this is a shift in the mindset of choosing clothes on a daily basis. I cannot honestly recall one time, from January until now, where I have uttered the words “I don’t know what I want to wear today?” I can pick out matching clothes with absolutely no effort, whether that is going out for the night, running errands or hanging out with friends. I can worry about getting busy living my life and not worry about what clothes I am going to wear.
Jumping into the 2nd round of Project 333, we are encouraged to update our wardrobe and switch out any items we want for the next 3 months and put away others we wont need. While I applaud those who do it, I have taken more of a permanent approach to the lifestyle. While I might not live with 33 items, I keep the number low and have limited my spending on new clothes.
Here is my current tally of all the clothing items I have with me in NY:
38 T-Shirts (16 I consider “outer-wear”, 7 undershirts, 15 shirts for around the house)
Quite the far cry from 33 items, isn’t it? By my count, for Project 333 numbers, I am at 45 items, as although I have “work clothes” I have not had the need to wear them, nor do I see the need in the foreseeable future.
I have gotten more comfortable wearing my workout shirts instead of t-shirts when heading out, as they handle the dry and wet a little better. Out of the 14 I have, there are 6 that I will wear out. I could (and probably will) put about 20-25 items into a storage box, as I am not wearing them, so don’t really need them right now.
The more options you have in your life, the more opportunity you have to be indecisive and waste your time hemming and hawing over the correct decision. I have chosen the path of reducing my wardrobe to quality, versatile pieces that take away the “what do I want to wear today” question out of the mix. I can now worry about more important things, such as where I am going, who am I spending time with and how I am going to make the most out of my life. I can concentrate on living my life and spend less time worrying about things completely within my control.
Have you ever done anything like this? Consolidated all of your clothes into a backpack to see the world? Just downsized to simplify your life? I would love to hear your insights on what paring down your wardrobe taught you about yourself. Let me know in the comments below!
My experiment in minimalism continues. What started with Operation: Consolidation as a goal to de-clutter my life and my attic, has crept into my closet.
What originally started for me was reading an intriguing concept by Nina Yau, where she decided to push her limits and wear the same clothes to work for 7 weeks straight. Seems like a strange experiment to most, challenged her mentally. Best part, almost nobody noticed.
Then I found Project 333 by Courtney Carver of Be More With Less. A challenge to all people dabbling in the minimalist lifestyle to take a long, hard look at their wardrobe. For herself, she found that she would rely on a few staples in her wardrobe, just like most people.
Project 333 challenges anyone who is interested to take their wardrobe and pare it down to 33 items, and wear only those 33 items for 3 months, with a few notable exceptions: